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In Becoming Egalitarian, my partner Stephen and I examine our limited (and limiting) beliefs about marriage and gender roles. We begin with why we were drawn to complementarianism and explore how our theology shifted to egalitarianism.

Becoming Egalitarian is our story, but it's not just our story. There are untold numbers of people who have been impacted by limiting beliefs about marriage and gender roles, beliefs that prop up an unhealthy power dynamic. We have found that by actively dismantling the hierarchy in our relationship, we could become true partners.


Becoming Egalitarian isn't an answer book. Rather, this is a vulnerable and authentic exploration of how we have a healthier partnership when operating from a place of mutuality. We want to help guide others into healthy partnerships where all parties are fulfilled apart from codependency and enmeshment.

Becoming Egalitarian is available now. Click the ORDER button. Thank you to everyone who backed our Kickstarter campaign to make this happen.

Signed Paperback

  • This book will ship in 10-15 days directly from Nicki through USPS.

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